How To Rebuild Your Confidence & Become A New YOU After Divorce

If you’re like most people, your self-esteem took a big hit in the divorce.

Without the most significant person in your life, you might feel like you hardly know yourself anymore.

So... what happens next?

Who are you when you aren’t neglecting your own needs to make someone else happy?

How do you find yourself?

And who do you want that person to be?

To know and trust yourself is to be CONFIDENT.

Confident people make more money, have more friends, and have deeper, more meaningful relationships.

...But confidence isn’t something you get once and have forever.

It’s a constant process.

It’s a PRACTICE.

Confidence builds confidence…

But if you don’t feel confident already, how can you start making these changes in yourself?

One of the topics we discuss in this new “mini-training” (more on this later) is resistance to change.

If you’ve found yourself unable to make real change in your life, you can use our simple “change model” formula to find out what’s missing:

D (dissatisfaction) x V (vision) x F (first steps) > R (resistance)

To make change, the sum of your dissatisfaction, vision, and first steps must be greater than the resistance.

So, let’s break this down a little more…

If you’re very dissatisfied with something but you don’t have a vision of how to change it or take the first few steps, you won’t overcome the resistance to change your situation.
If you start taking steps but don’t have a clear vision of where you’re headed or enough dissatisfaction toward the given situation, you won’t overcome the resistance.
If you have a vision of how to move forward, but you aren’t very dissatisfied or motivated to take the first steps… again, you won’t overcome the resistance.

It’s only when all three of these components - dissatisfaction, vision, and first steps - are big enough that change is inevitable. If you’re feeling stuck, you need only to ask yourself:

How dissatisfied am I?
Do I have a clear vision of what I want or what needs to change?
What are some small, concrete steps I can take?

This is just a small piece of what we talk about in

The New You: Confident & Clear” Course

Understanding how to START, BUILD, and CONTINUE to be confident is a challenging process.

I get it, because I’ve been there!

In my most recent divorce (which was my second), my wife left me. I felt ashamed, rejected, and lonely.

It wasn’t until I found a secret that my confidence soared…

And now, I’d like to teach it to you in my new “mini-training,” The New You: Confident & Clear.

Mastering the information in this course is LIFE-CHANGING because when you’re in control of your confidence (rather than letting it be determined by external factors), you’ll approach life differently.

You’ll be empowered, peaceful, and free from fear.

In fact, this skill has been by far the most impactful in my life, relationships, friendships, and day-to-day peace.

Whether you’re divorcing or are already divorced, this is your chance to rebuild your confidence and become a NEW you.

In The New You: Confident & Clear course, you’ll get:

How to uncover who you are post-divorce (so you can chart a course to who you want to be)
How to identify and overcome your negative thoughts (and stop letting your judgmental inner critic determine your self-worth)
How to use one or more of 40 actionable practices to start building your confidence
The elements of trust & how to apply them to your life (so you can trust yourself and others)
The 5 aspects of curiosity (and which of the 4 types you are)
The proven key to being joyful (no, it is NOT “having a better attitude!”)
15 ways to attain peace (starting today!)

The course is divided into 3 modules:

MODULE #1: Who Are You? Learn who you really are and get 8 strategies for overcoming the common roadblocks to building confidence.

MODULE #2: Self-Esteem & Confidence. Learn what these are and how to build them EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.

MODULE #3: The 6 Good Feelings. Learn how to have the 6 core “good” feelings when you don’t feel “good” (Peace, Love, Trust, Curiosity, Pride, and Joy).

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